these videos are about prevention. i dont care how you cope with your bad decisions. i care that other young people dont make the same bad decisions as you. my job is to prevent the disaster that is single motherhood not fix it, because its not fixable. your kids are gonna suffer the consequences of being raised without a dad no matter what you do, you robbed your children of a good childhood by having kids with a loser.
First Of All Let Me Clarify What “being in love” Means For Me Because The Term Is Too Vague And There Are A Lot Of Interpretations Out There And The Term Means Alot Of Different Thing To Different People. For Me Personally It Means These Three Things.
1st LUST. Relationships Purely On The Basis Of Attractiveness And Social Economic Status. Basically Rich Alpha Males Marry Pretty Chicks At Percieved Peak Sexual Market Value. That Would Usually Mean A Man At his mid to late 30s and a woman at her early to mid 20s. Of Course there are variations to that rule and there are occasions when rich women marry young men but please don’t waste your time looking for the exception while ignoring the rule.
2nd. PUPPY LOVE. That Would be either marrying the first girl you fell for when you were 15, or if you are a beta male marrying the first woman who paid attention to you out of fear and insecurity because you either know or are afraid you can’t do any better.
3rd EMOTIONAL CODEPENDENCE. Those are codependent relationships are usually the fusion of two traumatic childhoods as stefan molyneux likes to put it, this is when your unresolved issues and emotional scars from your childhood determine your future dating destiny. Basically what I mean is that you are dating or form “friendships” with people who mirror or closely resemble the characteristics and behavioral patterns of your childhood victimisers. For Example If Your Mother Verbally Abused Or Played the victim all the time without taking any responsibility for her actions, if you lack self-knowledge and self-awereness when you become an adult you will likely date people who treat you the same way, and thats because reliving that childhood trauma makes you feel at home and comfortable. but that feeling won’t last because managing the drama of those codependent relationships eventually gets exhausting and self-destructive.
Now For The More Positive Part Of This Post.
These Are The Three Core Principals I Personally Have Witnessed Successful And Happy Marriages Being based Upon.
1st MUTUAL RESPECT AND ADMIRATION. First And Foremost You Have To Respect Each Other For Who You Are As A Person. Then Acknoledge And Recognise Each Other’s Strength’s And Weeknessess. That Will Help You Figure Out Each Other’s Roles In A relationship. The Man And The Woman Should Be In Charge Of The Areas They Are Clearly Better On. By Trusting Your Wife Or Husband To Be In Charge In Areas They Are Better Than You, It Means You Respect, Admire And Ultimately Trust Them To Do What Is In Your Best Interest As A Couple. For Example I Am Good At Thinking Of The Big Picture And Planning Ahead And My Wife Is Good At Managing The Everyday Small Picture Type Of Things. And Make No Mistake In a Relationship They Are Both Equally As Important. We Are Equal But We Have Completely Different Roles Which Is What Makes Us Happy.
2nd SHARED VALUES. From My Experience A Relationship Is At Its Best When The Partners Have Different Personalities But Have Similar Values. For Example I Am An Introvert And My Wife Is An Extrovert, But We Are Both Anarchists And Anti Government. We Both Agree That Our Future Kids Will Not Go To Daycares Or Public School, we are both against spanking or verbal abuse,we both agree that my wife will breastfead and stay home to raise the kids and be a housewife. We Are Different In Personality And The Way We Do Things But In A Sense We have the same goals the Same Guiding Principles We Live By.
3rd CHARACTER COMPATIBILITY. We Are Both Honest But We Express Our Honesty Differently. My Wife Will Tell You The Truth With A positive Spin On It, But I Will Tell You The Truth With A Negative Spin On It, But We both Like To Tell The Truth. NO SMALL OR BIG LIES. We Also Both Have Courage But We Express It Differently And We Choose Specific Situations To Express It. We Both Encourage Each Other Without Nagging.
Now To Finish This Post I Will Say That Marriages out Of LUST, PUPPY LOVE Or/And EMOTIONAL CODEPENDENCE Feel Great At The Beginning but burn out fast, break down after the first few years and leave emotionally distraught and broken. But Marriages Out Of MUTUAL RESPECT AND ADMIRATION, SHARED VALUES And CHARACTER COMPATIBILITY Last Forever Because there is no drama and if conflict arises every now and then it’s easily solved because you both operate under the same core first principals.
now before i begin i write this post because i care & i stand for the kids who are innocent and were put in psycho-manufacturing daycares and raised without a father.
single mothers are usually badly raised women riddled with self-hatred that hate children because they see themselves in them so they use their own kids as collateral damage to collect welfare benefits from the government. Now even if you happen to be the exception to the rule you should still recognise that you belong to that group, and the single mother stain is very difficult to wash out, and as far as i can tell even so called “good single mothers” don’t own the fact that being a single mother is their own fault for fucking irresponsible losers. own your bad choices especially to your children or they will repeat your bad choices
Now Expanding on that First Of All you have to recognise that you are a single mother (widows & other rare exceptions excluded). this is not by accident, things don’t just happen. your own choices led you to become a single mother. if you dont want your children to have the same life as you, you need to explain them that 1st being a single mother is a bad thing and 2nd it was your own bad choices that led you to become a single mother. now if you dont tell your kids those 2 things it means you are a bad mother because you will obscure the truth to them just so you can excuse & justify your bad choices as mistakes and “things happen” bullshit phrases. TELL YOUR KIDS THE TRUTH. you were an irresponsible woman who liked having unprotected sex with “bad boys”. you liked the thrill so you didn’t care about the consequences of getting pregnant.
Excuses single mothers use….
1st: Life happens? you chose to fuck thugs and losers and your kids will be the ones to suffer for your bad decisions by being raised without a father and being dumped into psycho-creating daycares. take some fucking responsibility.
2nd: Working Mom? if you are working who is raising your children. the government and psycho-creating daycares. stop glorifying single motherhood, its toxic and destructive for children. you chose to fuck losers. OWN THAT or your children will repeat your bad choices
3rd: single moms are victims of men? you chose to spread your legs for thugs and bad boys and when they turn out to be unreliable you bitch and complain. you take no personal responsibility for fucking a thug in the first place.
all women who chose to fuck ireesponsible thugs and then became single mothers are trash., thats all there is to it.
i stand for the kids who are innocent and were put in psycho-manufacturing daycares and raised without a father. you stand with irresponsible women who fuck thugs and then blame men
Muslim Attitude Vs Western Attitude Towards Men
The Muslim Propaganda is this… If You become one of us you get to dominate everyone else you want without any judgement. Think About it,
As A Man Why wouldn’t I Want To Be A Muslim? It’s A Patriarchy. I Could Do Whatever I Want To Women And Everyone Else That’s Different Than Me.
My wife is nagging me? i can beat her. Girls Reject me? i can rape them. My Kids Disagree With Me I Can Beat Them To Death.
The Western Propaganda is this… Men Are Scum Men Are Disposable We Hate Men But We Need Men To Work So They Pay Their Taxes So We Can Give
benefits and government jobs to feminists and single mothers who destroy you through the state By divorce By taking your house your money your kids & leave you to die.
FROM AN AMORAL PERSPECTIVE AS A MAN BEING A MUSLIM IS WAY MORE BENEFICIAL THAN BEING A WESTERNER &
Since Most People Are Amoral Islam Will Prevail https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-power-rest/201409/life-amoral
About 30 Years ago women started acting like gay men with vaginas. gay men historically don’t have children so they tend to pursuit
the hedonistic aspects of life (partying, multiple partners non-commital relationships promiscuity, unprotected sex).
So Women Like Gay Men started looking for the pretty boys instead of responsible stable men.
Now the vast majority of people don’t have any character constitution or moral principles they live by, they just adapt to their enviroment.
so if you live in a cristian culture women are modest wait to have sex until marriage,
but if you live in a secular culture where instant gratification is the main non-value
then women become irresponsible sluts who fuck pretty boys throughout their 20s and then in their early 30s when they hit “the wall”
they want to “settle”. But By The They Are washed up whores that no man with self-respect wants to marry & Have a family with.